Self-incompatibility in flowering plants is a common mechanism that prevents self-fertilization and promotes outcrossing. In Brassicaceae, the self-incompatibility locus is highly diverse, with many alleles arranged in a complex dominance hierarchy and exhibiting monoallelic expression in heterozygote individuals. Monoallelic expression of the pollen self-incompatibility gene is achieved through the action of sRNA precursors that resemble miRNAs, although the underlying molecular mechanisms remain elusive. Here, we engineered Arabidopsis thaliana lines expressing components of the Arabidopsis halleri self-incompatibility system, and used a reverse genetics approach to pinpoint the pathways underlying the function of these sRNA precursors. We showed that they trigger a robust decrease in transcript abundance of the recessive self-incompatibility genes, but not through the canonical transcriptional or post-transcriptional gene silencing pathways. Furthermore, we observed that single sRNA precursors are typically processed into hundreds of sRNA molecules with a variety of sizes, abundance levels and ARGONAUTE loading preferences. Our results suggest that these seemingly arbitrary processing characteristics are essential for establishing the self-incompatibility dominance hierarchy, as they enable a single sRNA precursor from a dominant allele to effectively repress multiple recessive alleles, thus providing a unique example of how small RNAs mediate gene silencing within a highly complex regulatory network.