Extra-pair copulations (EPCs) are the poorly known antecedents of extra-pair fertilizations (EPFs) in birds. EPFs occur in most bird species that have been examined, but sexual conflict will generally reward females hiding their EPCs from males attempting to protect their paternity. EPCs will be difficult for researchers to document, and necessarily underestimated, in that case. We measured EPC behaviors and EPF frequency in a colonial seabird, the Nazca booby Sula granti, in which all copulations occur in a visually open setting with numerous possible copulatory partners readily available. Females are larger and more physically powerful than males, and are the numerically limiting sex, perhaps limiting options for males to control females. We found that all copulations were voluntary, and females sexual activities were wholly unconstrained by male coercion. Most females had multiple copulatory partners in the weeks preceding egg-laying. Despite the commonness of EPC, EPFs did not occur. The different schedules of EPC and within-pair copulation (WPC) provided a sufficient explanation for this outcome: during the ovulation window days before laying, WPC rate increased and EPC rate approached zero. To our knowledge, this is the first robust evidence of complete sexual agency in a female bird aside from lek-mating species, contributing a valuable exemplar to the literature on sexual conflict over reproduction.